boy fREn?? nOW??

Tis is the conversation between me and a seven-year-old little girl...

"jie jie, do u hav boyfren?"
~shocked cz she's only SEven!~ "No.. y? do U hav one?" **in kidding mode**
"yea.. i hav a bf! y dont u find one?" **smiling, show tht she's happy...n once again I was shocked.
"..."~nth i could say..~
"mY gege wants to noe u..i Thnk u 2 can B together..."
"..." ~alamak..i think i wanna die.. ...~

See..she's only seven.. know nth.. but thn she say tht she has a boyfren..is this called MODERN?? Does she know wht is LOVE??

nowadays some people who imitate the western life insist on having what they call boy/girl friend. others says it isn't something necessarily but others think that not having boy/girl friend is something unnormal and by doing so they are not civilized.

so, am i "UNCIVILISED"?? Oh, perhaps... its really common now tht 7 or 8 year old children say tht they hav so called boy or grl frens.. i really dont understand y ppl want to get involved in certain relationships because they will be easily hurt if their partner "dump" them... they will be very sad.. IF U WANT TO MAKE URSELF SLIMMER..JUST GO GET A BOY OR GRL FREN AFTER THT MAKE HIM/HER DUMP U..haha.. 100%u will be thinner after tht torturoes n dreadful period..if ur bf or gf leave u behind, u will be sad... u dont wanna eat... all da time u are moody and upset..BUT REMEMBER One aspect of sadness, or depression, is the feeling of isolation. Studies over two decades of thirty-seven thousand people have shown that isolation doubles the chances of sickness or death. Also, in numerous studies of patients with diseases, those who were more depressed were far more likely not to survive than those that were not depressed. This indicates that curing depression is very important medically, as well as psychologically.

i dont wanna suffer from sadness like tht.. i'd rather tht my first love will be my only love in my life too... haha... bring no harm... to me n to others too... ^_^